为第一次去男友家做好准备

方法 1

方法 1 的 8:安排好在他家可以进行的娱乐活动

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要是到了他家,你们却坐在沙发上无所事事,那该多无聊啊。当你第一次去他家时,你必须事先安排好活动。比如看一部新的电影、玩桌游、打电动游戏或者一起烹饪美食。不管做什么,只要两个人一起就很开心!
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如果他和家人住在一起,你可能要计划和他们一起共进晚餐。
如果他和室友住在一起,你可以放松些,和他们小酌几杯。
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方法 2

方法 2 的 8:穿着舒适的服装

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你只是去他家随便坐坐,不用盛装打扮。如果你知道他的家人在家,那就用长裤搭配得体的上衣,这样既显得讲究,又不会太正式。如果除了他,只有室友在家,那牛仔裤配上合身的体恤衫就很完美了。不管选择什么服装,最重要的是舒舒服服,充满自信地踏出家门。[2]
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不用花太多心思挑选鞋子,因为你可能一进屋就要把鞋脱掉。你最好穿运动鞋、平底鞋、靴子等穿脱便捷的鞋子。

方法 3

方法 3 的 8:准备好见他的父母或室友

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和男友的室友互动时要注意礼貌。现在,很多人都选择和其他人同住。去他家的那天再三确认谁会在家——如果他和其他人一起住,你要做好和他们打招呼,或者闲聊几句的准备。[3]
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如果他有室友,出于礼貌,你最好先和他们打招呼,聊几分钟后再去男友的房间。
如果他和父母住在一起,你可以在男友的引导下决定是否要和他们聊天。如果不聊天,你至少应该介绍自己,这样才显得有礼貌。如果不知道说什么,就当着男友父母的面表扬他——两位老人肯定会乐开花。[4]
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Erika Kaplan婚姻介绍人

专家访谈. 1 October 2020.

第一次和男友的家人或室友见面可能会让你非常紧张。如果你害怕表现不好,那就事先向男友打听一下室友或家人的情况,准备好要问的问题。比如,你可以问他妈妈的陶器生意做得怎么样,或者问他室友的大学生活是否顺利。

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方法 4

方法 4 的 8:遵守家里的规矩

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做个受欢迎的客人,遵守家里的规矩。事先询问男友,弄清楚他家有哪些规矩。如果他和父母一起居住,你就更要注意。你可能进门后需要脱鞋,喝东西时需要使用杯垫,或者只能在饭厅吃东西。越是尊重他家的规矩,你给他家人留下的印象就越好! [5]
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如果你不清楚该怎么做,那就照着男友的样子做。他住在这个家里,家里的规矩对他而言肯定是烂熟于心。

方法 5

方法 5 的 8:放心地使用卫生间

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在别人家上厕所总让人不自在。但是憋着不去只会让情况更糟!如果你在他家做客时突然想上厕所,跟他说一声,然后去把问题解决掉。幸运的话,厕所里可能放着空气清新剂,你可以在完事后喷一喷。[6]
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如果你对在别人家上厕所这件事超级介意,可以随身带一瓶 “神奇扑扑丽”。这是一种大便前喷在马桶里的除臭剂,能够消除任何如厕时产生的异味。

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方法 6

方法 6 的 8:带上饮料或零食

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如果你们打算晚上看电影,自带饮料零食绝对是个好主意。出门前,在街角的便利店买些酒水、饮料,或者薯片。看着你拎着大包的零食,你的男友肯定会张开双臂欢迎你,你们的约会之夜也有了一个顺利的开始![7]
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如果他和室友或家人住在一起,你得多买些零食和大家分享。零食能帮你收买人心,给大家留下不错的印象。

方法 7

方法 7 的 8:打包行李以便过夜

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你不需要准备很多行李,一个小包就够了。如果你打算在男友家过夜,准备一个小包,装上牙刷、舒服的衣服以及卸妆棉。你不必把整个衣橱的衣服都塞进去,放几件重要的衣物就可以了。[8]
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如果第二天你和男友有计划,那么你需要打包几件干净的衣服,以便第二天早上更换。被忘了带上化妆品。

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方法 8

方法 8 的 8:不要对男友家的清洁卫生情况发表意见

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他家的卫生状况可能达不到你的标准。如果你的男友独自居住,或者有一个和他年龄差不多的室友,他的屋子可能比较凌乱。你可以帮忙清理桌子,或者把床上杂乱的物品推到一边,但是尽量不要大动干戈。[9]
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如果他的屋子脏乱得让人无法忍受,你可得留意了。邀请女友到家里做客之前却不收拾打扫,这说明他对脏乱的环境已经习以为常了(这可能是个危险的信号)。

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